Thursday, February 12, 2009

kongkek

I don't understand Malay couples. Some of them. Not all.

Hard to be PC when everything you write is susceptible to being judged, left, right and center.

I don't understand some Malay couples.

They get all crazy wanting to get all over each other on dates to the extent of doing stuff on motorbikes and in cars, when it is haram for them to do all these things. But a few months after it is actually halal to do so and even some crazier things, they stopped doing those things to each other, or even want to on the grounds that 'kita orang Melayu, mana boleh buat cam tu, malulah, orang tengok!'

Hello, for those times you were all over each other, listening and following bisikan syaitan and nafsu tu, tu budaya Melayu ke? For all those times ko berkongkek tak kira tempat tu, budaya Melayu ke?

And of all the Western culture yang korang sibuk nak cedok and tiru tu, why can't you cedok and tiru some of the principles they have in being life-long married couples? The type that still hold hands and keeping the romance alive when it has outlived the youth, beauty and good looks? The type who misses the empty space in beside them in bed and wishing with all their heart that he/she can be back in their arms in the blink of an eye?

Why can't you fall in love with the person? And not simply with the packaging he/she came in?

Ramai sangat yang buat kenduri besar-besaran, 3 hari, 3 malam... tak sampai berapa tahun dah berantakan. Bersyukurlah woi, korang tu dapat gak merasa nikah. Aku ni?

Kidding. I don't mind. I swear.
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About the bit where I haven't go the chance to get married. Honestly, seeing what is going on with people and their married lives, I have become quite the pessimist when it comes to relationships and its eventual demise.

But truly, aku menyampah melihat young couples yang seems to be Muslims, tapi tak display any kind of Muslim behavior when it comes to dating... and they do it out in the open. No, I am not exasperated. Just nauseated because I know, most of the same couples will not be all lovey dovey and all over each other anymore once the girl get all pregnant and bloated and stuff. They will walk a few feet ahead of her, let alone hold her hand. Yang the perempuan pulak, pasrah. Bila nak beranak, hantar balik rumah mak ayah dia! Wadefak? Babi punya jantan.

The very things they enjoy when it is haram, loses its thrill when it is halal.

Why?

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